Separation is not an event that happens in time, it is a process that takes place over time.  Wherever you are now, things will change.

The end of a significant relationship is difficult.  Sepration and divorce can create a perfect storm of emotion -- feelings of hurt, betrayal, anger and grief combine with self-doubt, financial stress and uncertainty about the future.  Together these things can lead to paralysis and indecision at the very time you are under pressure to make decisions that will have a significnat impact on your life and your children's lives for years to come.  It is also a time when you may feel isolated, cut off from friends and family.

My approach 

In working with people going through a separation or divorce I start with where you are -- not where you should be or could be.  The goal is to understand how you are managing in this difficult time and discover your strengths so that you can make the decisions you need to make now and build a life for yourself in the future.

If you are involved in litigation or the legal system, my background in law can help you navigate this process.  ALthough I cannot give you legal advice, I can help you understand the legal process and its limitations.